Before I even start on a goal I like to figure out how I'm going to hold myself accountable.
You may thing this should be the last step. But it is important from the very beginning to have a way to make yourself accountable for completing the goal. Too many times we think of a goal and there is no traction, no substance to it and it just... goes away. If that happens it wasn't really a goal, just an idea. So, at the very beginning, throughout, and at the very end be sure to make yourself accountable to completing the goal.
You may thing this should be the last step. But it is important from the very beginning to have a way to make yourself accountable for completing the goal. Too many times we think of a goal and there is no traction, no substance to it and it just... goes away. If that happens it wasn't really a goal, just an idea. So, at the very beginning, throughout, and at the very end be sure to make yourself accountable to completing the goal.
Are you going to write about it in your journal or on a blog? Is there an ending "event" that will happen when the goal is accomplished? Are you going to report to someone? If so, who? When? Where? How?
Recently, for my business, I found someone to be my accountability partner. This is going to be great! We have similar goals since we are in the same line of business. We are not competitors so we can be specific and open when we are discussing our goals and ideas. What will we do as accountability partners?
- Talk about what goals we want to accomplish in specific detail
- Decide how we are going to accomplish our goals
- Give each other tips and ideas to help create the specific goals
- Report to each other frequently - this will help with focus and encouragement
- If the goal wasn't accomplished, why?
- If the goal was accomplished, what were the struggles?
- What would we have done differently?
- Would we do it again?
- Was it worth it?
If you have a business, having someone to confide in is a must. When I first started my business I didn't have any kind of partner. No one to bounce ideas off of. (My husband is a construction superintendent, so he doesn't know much about virtual assistants.) No one to help me focus in on what I needed to do. Having an accountability partner is free and something that benefits both of you. So, I highly recommend it!
Make simple, yet as specific as possible. This can be a little tricky, but you'll need it this way for step 3.
Write down what the end result of this goal will do for you. What is it that you want to accomplish? This is a step that some of us will skip. Yep, I've done it too... Only to find that the goal was forgotten, put on the back burner, and obviously never completed. So, take some time to think about it.
For my business this month one of my goals is this: Double my likes on Facebook from 40 to 80 by November 1.
I like to type up my goal in a cool font and post it where I have to think about it all the time.
I put it on the mirror in the bathroom, on the refrigerator, on the kitchen cabinets, on a post-it in the car, in the notes on my phone. One time I even typed it up and made it my background on my computer! This is why it's a good idea for my goals to be simple yet specific.
Here is what my reminders look like this month for my Facebook goal:
Every time I see this little reminder I think of all of the details in my plan....
While I'm creating my little reminders I'm brainstorming on how to accomplish this goal. This will be the biggest step of all!
Now, you may be asking yourself why I put this so low on the list. Well, that's because while you are figuring out how to make yourself accountable, writing down the end result, and creating your reminders and posting them, you will be thinking about THE PLAN. Your brain needs time to think and ponder what the steps will be in the plan. From the very start of this process you should be keeping notes. The drafts from when you write down your goal are probably going to be part of The Plan.
This is where you really get detailed. Don't hold back. Write down every idea that may help you accomplish the goal. No matter how simple or crazy. While brainstorming I like to write everything that comes into my mind. Sometimes I'll write several pages. Sometimes I do research online for additional ideas. Sometimes I like to chat with my husband, my daughters, and my accountability partner. Anyone who may have some insight, encouragement, or just to talk about it.
Be sure to ask for help from those around you!
Once I have written down everything and all of my ideas are on paper, I like to sleep on it. Maybe even take a day or two to ponder over everything I've written down. Then, I put all of my thoughts in order and make clear specific steps to accomplish the goal.
Don't be afraid to revise your plan! While working on your goal you may find there are steps you missed, steps that need to be changed, steps that need to be adjusted. That's okay. Make the necessary adjustments to your plan and keep on going! Your end goal is still the same.
Here are the tasks for my Facebook goal. (Be sure to leave me a comment and let me know if you have other ideas.)
- Create a blog on my website for Realtors and other real estate virtual assistants
- Write articles that are interesting and helpful to real estate agents and virtual assistants
- Post my blog articles on Twitter, LinkedIn, BlogFrog, and other social media
- Like real estate agent and virtual assistant fan pages and participate with their posts
- Have a fan page party during the last week of October
- Have a promotion for new likes.... Create a Facebook fan page header for one lucky person from my new likes
- Use my free $50 Facebook coupon to advertise (create ad for Facebook)
As the month goes on I'm sure I will add to this list, change it, and keep on searching for more ideas.
Every day do something that will help you accomplish that goal. Research an idea, do one of the steps on your plan, work toward completing one of the steps in your plan, be ACTIVE in working toward the goal.
There will be days where you may get discouraged, not have time, or simply not be able to work on your goal. That's okay. Don't let that stop you from starting again the next day. And remember, "A journey begins with just one step." Start your journey today and CREATE A GOAL!
There will be days where you may get discouraged, not have time, or simply not be able to work on your goal. That's okay. Don't let that stop you from starting again the next day. And remember, "A journey begins with just one step." Start your journey today and CREATE A GOAL!
- Leave me a message saying you read the post
- Leave your fan page address so I can return the favor
- Let me know what goal you have set for yourself this month so I can cheer you on!
Thanks for reading!
Great list Sheila! I totally need to be better at setting Goals..my problem is making time to make the goals in the first place..I used to be so good at this..but find myself floundering sometimes. :( Thank you!
ReplyDeleteBlessings!